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The Masculine With Stefanos & Joshua

Why We Created This

Joshua and Stefanos met in 2018 while co-facilitating a men’s retreat, and an instant brotherhood was born. What began as deep mutual respect quickly evolved into a friendship rooted in shared values: growth, integrity, service, and devotion to conscious leadership.

With over 40 years of combined experience coaching high achievers, we are passionate about trauma healing, nervous system regulation, and helping individuals create aligned, purpose-driven relationships.

Our newest collaboration, Decode the Masculine, was born from a shared mission: to help you understand how healthy, integrated, initiated, emotionally available men think, feel, and love...so you can stop shrinking, performing or chasing love and start owning what you deserve, what you desire, and what it can feel like to be met.

If you are here, most likely you have been hurt or abandoned by unintegrated & uninitiated men in your past, and it's jaded your vision of the masculine. This has created an imprint in your nervous system and body that continues to repeat patterns of attracting and saying yes to the same types of men because this is your experience of what men are.

When you begin to surround yourself with healthy, integrated, initiated men, it shifts your entire experience of men. You begin to realize and feel the difference between the wounded masculine and the healthy integrated masculine. We also teach you how to tell the subtle differences that you can feel in your body.

When this happens you no longer need to repeat unhealthy relationships. You begin to own your value, trust your intuition, and break your old relationship blueprints. When you feel safe in your body, and you can begin to trust there are healthy men in the world, you flourish in all aspects of life... especially love.

A Bi-Weekly Dojo Just For You...

You’ve reading the books, talking with your girlfriends, working with female coaches.

But you still find yourself looping...

  • “Why did he pull away?”

  • “Was that a red flag or just my nervous system reacting?”

  • “How can I tell if he is being authentic?”

  • “How soon should I share certain details?”

  • “Am I asking for too much or not enough?”

  • “Was that a red flag or just my nervous system reacting?”

Most dating advice either teaches you how to play the game...
...or how to overthink or manipulate your way to clarity or results.

But clarity isn’t mental. It’s somatic.

And real understanding comes not from decoding men in theory, but hearing directly from men who’ve been in the work for decades & training other men to do the work.

Most women are trying to decode men based on secondhand information, contradictory advice, or viral soundbites that don’t reflect how emotionally mature men operate.

Inside this bi-weekly coaching space, you’ll begin to feel the difference between distorted masculinity and conscious masculine presence. You’ll learn how emotionally available men respond to truth, vulnerability, boundaries, and feminine radiance. We will also guide you deeper into your somatic felt sense so you can deepen your trust in your intuition.

You’ll bring the text message you don’t know how to respond to.
The moment you felt dropped after opening your heart.

A question around a potential red flag.
Or the question that’s been spinning in your head for days.

And you’ll get clarity from the masculine in real-time.

What Makes This Different…

You’re Not Just Getting Male Perspective... You’re Getting Embodied Insight

We are two integrated, emotionally available men who...

  • Have coached thousands of men through the exact issues you’re experiencing from the other side

  • Specialize in nervous system regulation, trauma healing, and relational repair

  • Understand both the psychology and physiology behind men’s behavior in dating, conflict, intimacy, and commitment

  • Are living this work daily in our relationships, our growth, and our mission to bridge the masculine-feminine divide.

  • Have both been doing deep work for decades & still continue to do the work. You will feel this in our communication, presence & attunement to you on the calls.

This Space is For You If You’re:

  • Have questions about men, dating, or relationships and want your questions answered directly from the masculine

  • Tired of overanalyzing men and wish you could just ask, "What is he really thinking? or What does this mean?"

  • Want to a safe space to bounce things off of to give you clear, direct advice.

  • Dating consciously but still second-guessing whether a man is truly integrated or emotionally unavailable in disguise

  • Unsure when to lean in, lean back, or walk away and want feedback rooted in clarity and embodied leadership

  • Find yourself learning about men through viral posts and feminine perspectives but want to hear it straight from the masculine

  • Unsure if a dynamic you’re in is healthy or if you’re caught in a pattern of emotional unavailability, control, or manipulation

  • Want to know how healthy men handle conflict, boundaries, and emotional expression so you stop normalizing dysfunction

  • Left a toxic or confusing relationship but still feel bonded or unsure why it’s hard to fully let go

  • Afraid of repeating past patterns and want support from a man who sees and honors your growth

  • Ready to stop guessing, stop spinning, and start trusting yourself and the kind of love your feminine actually longs for

Inside This Space, You’ll Receive…

  • Clarity and confidence in your relational instincts, so you stop second-guessing yourself and start honoring what your body already knows

  • A deeper felt sense of what healthy, grounded masculine energy actually is, so you can finally recognize the difference between control and leadership, charm and integrity

  • Real-time insight into how integrated, emotionally available men think, love, and choose, so you stop dating potential and start attracting partners who are ready

  • Live coaching to break the old patterns, the ones rooted in survival, over-functioning, or self-abandonment and step into a new way of relating that honors your feminine truth

  • Nervous system regulation through masculine attunement, so you can rewire your relationship with safety, intimacy, and devotion at a body-based level

  • Practical tools for navigating real-world dating dynamics, whether you’re meeting someone new, feeling uncertain about a connection, or rebuilding self-trust after heartbreak

  • Embodied examples of healthy masculine love, so you no longer need to imagine what it might feel like… you’ll know

TESTIMONIALS

What others are saying

"My Life Has Blossomed"

"Working with Stef was life changing for me. It allowed me to get off the emotional roller coaster and live from a peaceful baseline where I could shift things in my business & relationship." - Joy

"It Transformed Me "

"I was starting to lose hope that I could have a healthy relationship & had a mistrust of men. My life today is so different. I am dating from a much healthier embodied place & able to relax into my feminine and trust men now" - Heather

"Highly recommend it"

"Joshua has this rare ability to hold up a clean & clear mirror & has helped me so much. Joshua is the embodiment of an initiated, integrated, embodied healthy sacred divine masculine." - Noel

"Such a safe space "

"Josh has this exceptional way of making everyone feel really safe & really seen. Josh is going to take you from where you are at now to where you want to be. " - Sarah

The Offering..

Here's what you get:

  • Bi-Weekly live 2 hr zoom coaching call with Joshua Wenner & Stefanos Stifandos

    • Calls are the 1st & 4th Monday each month 4 - 6 pm CST.

    • First call starts Monday September 15th 4 - 6 pm CST.

  • Laser coaching + direct masculine reflection on your questions

  • Weekly feminine integration prompts to shift your dating patterns from the inside out

  • Private Telegram group for connection, support, and real-time insight

  • Replays available if you can’t attend live

Total value: $1,500

Today Just $111/mo

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"Highly Recommend"

I had some clarity on where I was meant to go but was feeling extremely blocked in being ready to do it! I was getting many sessions with various healers that weren’t landing the way I hoped…but something finally clicked in my session with Joshua.

NAIA

Call Flow & Timing

1.Live Q&A Calls

Held 2nd & 4th Monday @ 4 - 6 PM CST

2.Submit

your question in advance or on the call

3.Receive Access

on Zoom + Telegram link upon joining

4.Cancel anytime

no long-term commitment required

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Meet Your Coaches

Meet Your Coaches

Stefanos Sifandos

A globally recognized mastercoach, trained educator and relationship expert with a background in behavioral science, trauma and somatics. Stefanos is passionate about leading people closer to their highest potential. He helps men and women escape negative patterns and cultivate a positive sense of self as well as restructuring and re-framing their relationships, the things that matter most to them, with themselves and their loved ones.

Joshua Wenner

A globally recognized master mastercoach, filmmaker, and nervous system expert with a background in behavioral science, grief, trauma, and somatics. Joshua helps men and women break free from unconscious patterns, heal core wounds, and build empowered, authentic relationships. His work integrates science and soul, guiding individuals to rewrite their relational blueprint and reconnect with their highest potential in love, intimacy, and within themselves

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The Masculine With Stefanos & Joshua